think about it.

"Having power and having control are two very different things -- let go of control.

Having power and having control are very different possessions.. You do not have to be the one in charge to shape the future. Do not think too small today - focusing on the person behind the steering wheel is waste of time. Today, the driver is a chauffeur. The person riding in the back seat, obscured by the tinted glass that has all the power. So let go of the wheel and go for a ride."

In conclusion, what is the use of having control but not power........and I feel too, you need control after obtaining power but power is the first to achieve. I feel the power from the above simply means, knowledge, skills, etc......well at least to my interpertation. Ouh and probably wealth and status too.......hmm i was thinking of application of the above to life, say a football team, the captain is like the driver but the real power comes from the men behind him.......in school, the driver might be the leader of a certain group but the power really comes from its members.......am i right to say that?....hehehe jus doing this for the sake of psychology.

back to life, i try not to think of what has happened, i gotta keep focus......like yah-nee said, "do ur best.." and like mdm chin ensured me "you can siddiq,..." im glad i have wonderful ppl around me.